Flywheel question

You might want to invest in a knocker. There only 10 bucks and it will help you a lot removing the flywheel. I wouldn't try to not keep it from being installed tight because that's the point. If not the flywheel will slip ruining the crank or flywheel itself.
that is a good thing much better then slipping. I know it can be a pain to get it off but the tool mentioned above will make it simple.