Wear wise- Sounds like its sitting on top of the track milling the surface of the tire off.
Bite wise- One of two conditions, too much bite locking down, or not enough and it runs out of bite at the end of the race.
We all know you don't make any speed in the kids classes by sliding or being excessively loose, but I always looked at it that the reason a lot of people say they're better on thinner, harder, less prep, more air on the kids even when off speed wise and thinking its right is that they're not sliding bad enough to actually slide, but are ever so slightly sitting on top and not aware of it. Same reason why on Saturday or Friday night races you can do this forever and be fast and win and not notice an issue or a need to change anything. When you get on a track as it sounds above you see that when others are right, its off, even if it is slight.
The other thing with kids I always look at is the split between adults and kids lap times, the closer they get on day shows the more bite the kids need since all of their gains compared to a normal night are coming from not slowing down or gaining speed through the turns.
A lot of this nuance also comes down to the kart itself, how soft and how much bite it is making, and ultimately how into the track it is.